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rnedia:

my nickname in middle school was “who?”

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tacoart:

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angrybisexual:

Saying casual sex destroys your ability to form meaningful romantic relationships is like saying that talking to a stranger at the bus stop takes away the meaning of your friendships.

im so fricking boring and unfunny the only reason i have any friends is bc im rly good at tricking people into thinking im cute im actually not im gross and boring 

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im so boooring aughhhh im a dumb loser

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reaill:

thank u

Article: I Didn't Know There Were Cities in Africa! →

greenactivista:

Please substitue the word “children” for “99 percent of the idiots using the #peace tag on tumblr.”

I always get too angry to articulate why images of malnourished African children bothers me. Why it is racist. Why it’s wrong.

This article above helps.

The way you think about Africa is wrong.

The way you think about the entire world beyond you is probably wrong.

But let’s start with Africa. Because chances are you paid the 30 dollars for that stupid fucking Invisible Children starter kit. That at one point in time you participated in a 30 Hour Famine at church. Or you “adopted” a starving child with a few friends after you saw a 5 minute infomercial. Possibly you really like Bono. Or Blood Diamond made you feel really bad. Hotel Rwanda made you cry. Maybe you have one of those shirts with the heart in the middle of the continent. Or that you really want to internationally adopt an “orphan.”

The way you think about Africa is wrong.

Did you know that the UNICEF definition of orphanhood as the loss of one or both parents. Did you know that children are adopted by white parents all the time when their biological parents are still alive. Did you know that foreign adoptions happen all the time because parents see themselves as too impoverished or incapable to raise their children on their own. Did you know that Madonna, the supposed savior of Malawi, abducted her child because international adoptions aren’t even legal in that country. 

Did you know that the never-ending stream of donations you send to Africa is destroying local economies and small businesses. Did it ever occur to you that your donations are putting people out of business. Did you consider that you might be creating poverty just for participating in a capitalist system that steals from the poor and then throws them whatever is left over and calls it “charity.” Did it never occur to you, while you were donating money and feeling good about it, why it is that your dollar is needed in the first place.

Did you know that organizations like World Vision (the asshats who brought you the 30 Hour Famine) have set up camps for survivors of war and violence in Uganda, where they regularly impose Christian teachings and values through a process called “sensitization,” in order to get survivors to think more like they doDid it ever occur to you that there are thousands of languages, cultures, and lives that are being homogenized by “charitable” organizations, and that it’s on your dime.

Did you know that money you donate comes with strings, and sometimes it doesn’t even come at all. Did it occur to you that organizations don’t spend their money unless they want to, and that frequently comes with stipulations. Did you consider that maybe there are places in Africa and elsewhere that really need your money or economic support, but don’t give a fuck about your hegemonic religious values. Did you have any clue that organizations like Invisible Children take in millions of dollars annually, but don’t even spend a third of it in Uganda.

Did you have any idea that countless charities, hospitals, adoption agencies, etc., set up in Africa are illegal, and done without credence to national or local government. Have you heard of volunteer tourism? Did you have any idea that completely untrained and uneducated people are hauling ass to Africa, and building charities that board, educate, and treat young children illegally with absolutely zero recognition of the law of the land in which they are in.

Did it ever occur to you that maybe some people in Africa are doing just fucking fine. They have a house. They own shoes. They have parents and siblings and food and an education and a favorite restaurant and hobbies and ambitions and a happy life. Did you consider that maybe your stupid generalizations and conceptualizations bother and insult them, and make it more difficult to be them.

Did you ever consider that Africa is a living, breathing continent of millions of people who are different. Economically, socially, religiously, lingually, culturally, ethnically different. And that your stupid fucking pictures of malnourished kids, your idolization of Angelina Jolie and Madonna, your ridiculous Invisible Children bracelet, your idiotic KONY 2012 posters are racist. They’re simplifying a place that is not simple. They’re portraying an enormous continent as singular, backward place. Instead of more complicated than you have ever bothered to understand.

You operate autonomously, offering your “help” where it has not been asked for. Blindly donating your dollars and your time without having any idea how it is being spent. 

There are people there. Governments. Cities. There are people living their lives in a continent that you do not understand, but you claim to help.

This rant was long-winded but I’ll conclude.

Just please if you take nothing else away from this. Be critical of the shit you are fed. Africa is a continent. And at least take the time to learn about it before you even consider throwing money or used books or Toms sneakers at it.

-written by greenactivista

I was not “born in the wrong body”

miss-sakamoto:

Well, I certainly admit that if I’d been born with a different set of genitals, life would be a whole lot easier. The phrase has been useful in explaining our position to society for the past few decades but it’s really starting to annoy me.

Being trans* is heavily medicalised. Obviously we want and benefit from the medical community supporting us (they have the sweet drugs and surgical skills) but I’m not ill. I don’t have a disability. Pregnant people don’t visit the hospital because they are ill. They go because there’s something complex and risky going on with their bodies and it’s good to have the help of those who know about bodies. 

When we talk about being born in the wrong body, we are expressing the idea that god/nature/fate/whatever has played a cruel trick on us. It certainly feels like that sometimes but it’s not fate that makes my life hard. It’s the people who find me hilarious or disgusting or don’t recognise my humanity and right to exist that make life hard. I’d rather we stopped shifting the blame of our problems onto fate or whatever and accept that I’m a woman regardless of my junk. I don’t care what happened to me to get me here but I do care about my safety and self esteem. It is society that is messed up, wrong and hurtful. Not my birth.

shorm:

themanedlioness:

spookycommie:

“money can’t buy you happiness” is some legit propaganda aimed at keeping poor people in their place and preventing upward mobility under the guise that to do so requires a breach of ethics 

It’s like ok yes true, money can’t buy happiness but you know what it can buy? idk antidepressants?? Medicine? Food? Clothing? Shelter? People are willing to say that money isn’t important because it can’t buy you happiness when it can idk keep people alive in some situations fancy that.

Also when you have had no money ever then sometimes money makes you pretty fucking happy ijs

And hell, even studies have shown that up to a certain income (I think around the $75k/year range, so a rather substantial one) money and happiness are, in fact, directly correlated. “Money can’t buy you happiness” is literally only true for those who are already rich.

the-gubbins-trench:

pixelexic:

There’s just something about that face.

Michael “Babyface” Jones.

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